So there's this girl I know, I wouldn't really call her a friend since we were never really close enough for that, who has recently got into a relationship and I can't stand it. I mean I don't really CARE because first of all she has a vagina so her relationship status doesn't affect me any way shape or form, but it's just the stuff she posts now is so annoying. Before she got into the relationship I really enjoyed her updates. Some of them were bitter bitch status, which I of course loved but aside from those she would update with really good stuff. Stuff I'd immediately find myself laughing at or liking, I just enjoyed what she posted. Then she gets into a relationship and it's likeshe turned into the exact person she talked about hating. It's not even like before she was bitching about something JUST because she couldn't have it. There's one thing to be happily with someone but it's another thing when you have to post every single aspect of your relationship online. The happy times are super super happy and the sad times are super super sad. It's like the bitch became bi-polar over night. Now I know relationships are a lot to deal with and the emotions are crazy, but I simply liked her better when she was single. Simple.
It also seems like a hand full of my somewhat close friends are just now finding guys. Which is annoying in the sense that I don't have a guy...but that's a different story for a different day lol. But it's like they spent so long crying and complaining that they were single and now they have a guy who likes them and wants to be with them and they're doing everything in their power to ruin it. They'll ignore him because they feel like he doesn't want to talk to them. Or they'll bitch and moan about every single insecurity they have which only makes them even more insecure which I can bet does nothing short of pushes the guy away. I've only been in one relationship, and if you ask the majority of the people who knew about it they'll call it a "relationship" which I guess means I have no experience what so ever, but when I was in the "relationship" i did all the stuff I'm talking about so I know how it is, but it just ANNOYS me. I think it annoys me because it's not just one person I'm dealing with. It's not just a good friend that I'm being the shoulder to cry on. I mean I AM in that situation but that doesn't annoy me. It just seems like it's way too many people doing the exact same thing and I'm on the other end just listening. Listen listen listen, that's all I do. It's no ones fault but myself, but that doesn't mean that it shouldn't get annoying...because it does.
And if you come to me with your relationship problems and you read this, don't feel like I'm putting this out there as a hint for you to stop coming to me. I don't mind at all. Honestly. It's not YOU that's annoying me, it's the situation that's annoying me. I love you all dearly, unless I don't...and if I don't love you, you definitely know it already lol
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